I’ll soon be forty-three. A year has passed since I started this blog – one of many that I have started, stopped, deleted. There is a big part of me that wants to stay at home and make a living online. I want to break free from my cubicle and golden handcuffs. If you have ever dipped your toe into the online business and marketing pool, you soon learn that it is full of sharks. There is so much bullshit to wade through and everyone wants to sell you something. It’s like a meta, meta world. Learn how to make money online by teaching people how to make money online – MLM via a flat screen really. It all makes me want to throw my hands up, or just throw up.
I save this little blog for just writing whatever I want. I’m anonymous, a nobody. We are all so exposed now. Have you ever googled your name? You might be surprised at the stuff (especially photos) that shows up. It’s a good reminder to monitor what’s going on.. It’s a very different world. People can comment on your life so easily and the autonomy of a keyboard seems to bring out the worst in some.
Somewhere along the line, we forgot how to be nice to each other. To help out like our parents used to help our neighbours. A kind comment, a helpful reference. These are all things we could do for each other. I’ve had some amazing comments on my blog from some of the kindest people I will never meet. I took this week off of work and being away from the office has recharged me. I am working like a dog at home though. I have mowed lawns, put up siding, torn down a shed, organized boxes (we are prepping to sell), cleaned and cooked supper every night. In that time I have been able to look behind myself and breathe in a great feeling of satisfaction for the tasks I have accomplished – something I never get at work.
I don’t have it all figured out yet, but I will find a way to extricate myself from my day job and create a living from doing things I love. Temporary and freelance work is becoming the new normal and I know it can be done with compassion from a place of truly wanting to help others and not just trying to make a fast buck.
Choosing yourself is possible.